How I Met My Abusive (ex) Boyfriend

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Thank you for watching and hearing my story. Check my pinned comment in the comment section below for more information about me/my experience. Click "Show More" for some helpful links. ▶GET HELP! https://www.thehotline.org/ - FREE live chat, 24/7 call services, OVER 200 LANGUAGES https://www.loveisrespect.org/ - FREE live chat, 24/7 call services https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/ - FREE live chat, 24/7 call services https://www.childhelp.org/hotline/ - FREE chat only in Arizona, nationwide 24/7 call services https://www.betterhelp.com/ - NOT SPONSORED - online, personal counseling services ▶GET EDUCATED! https://www.joinonelove.org/ - LEARN MORE about abusive relationships https://www.loveisrespect.org/ - “RELATIONSHIPS 101” - LGBTQ+ inclusive https://www.thehotline.org/is-this-abuse/ - “IS THIS ABUSE?” - helpful guide “6 Types of Child Abuse” by Psych2Go: https://youtu.be/vRkKPMXXN8M “Abuse Story” by storybooth: https://youtu.be/SiKQDu2cNvU “Bad Boyfriend” by storybooth: https://youtu.be/_vFqzpENZO0 ▶GET OUT THERE AND HELP! http://stoprelationshipabuse.org/ https://www.joinonelove.org/take-action/ https://www.childhelp.org/donate/#step-one ▶I USE: - ToonBoom Harmony Premium - to animate - Blue Yeti microphone - to record - Premiere CC - to edit audio and video - Cintiq 16 Pro screen tablet - to draw (but I recommend basic cheap pen tablets from Wacom) ▶STAY CONNECTED: https://instagram.com/illymation https://twitter.com/illymation

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illymation
⬇️ IF YOU HAVE A QUESTION I PROBABLY ANSWERED IT HERE ⬇️

Hey guys! Thank you for making it through that video and hearing my story on this. Considering this content and the kind of awful people it can attract, I wanna start something good in my comments section with your help! If you see a comment that’s super kind, helpful, anything awesome, comment on that comment with a heart ❤️ emoji. That way, youtube will push it to the top. If enough people give love to one another, maybe we can drown out the hate. 😄

I expect there will be a lot of valid questions. A lot of those I can assure you I’ll get to in the next videos. But here are some answers for now.

Why did you make this video? It’s [insert your opinion here]

If I have a platform, if I have a voice, if people are watching and listening to me, I want to use this channel to highlight the things I wish I knew to avoid when I was your age. I want to warn others against awful people like the guy in this video. Know the red flags. Listen to your friends and family. It really can happen to anyone.

“Why wait? Quit cliffhanging! Tell us everything!”

This is already a 10 minute video that took over a month to do! I’m also in college full time. I reaaaallly wanted to do a tell-all, believe me. There’s just so much to tell, and I am ITCHING to get this done.

“Why didn’t you go to the police?”

1. You can’t call the cops on someone being mean to you on the internet.
2. I did! (I’ll get into that in the next video) but understand, I, the detective, my lawyer, we all need to be able to prove who sent the messages. The messages themselves aren’t enough. If brought to court, he could argue “oh my sister sent that not me” and... we can’t prove otherwise. And if you don’t believe this, idk what to tell you. I went to the police and this is what they told me.
3. We tried proving otherwise by getting his confession, and he denied it all of course. He never thought he did anything wrong in the first place.
4. Even though he coerced me into sending pictures, I could still go to jail for “soliciting” CP. Again, we can’t prove HE coerced me. But we can prove that’s me who sent them. “WAIT THATS NOT FAIR—!” Yup. Even though I was coerced, I was pressured, I was threatened... I did something that can be proven, and he did something that can’t be proven. So going to court could possibly get ME jailed. This is what people mean when they say “the system protects criminals.” 🙃

”Why didn’t you include the messages where [this this that that whatever]”

I just don’t have the messages. Here’s the approximate breakdown of our conversation history:
- 80% Skype
- Of that 80%, half was talking out loud (therefore no paper trail)
- Blocking people on Skype in 2015 deletes your conversation history. I know there’s a way to mine it out of your computer somehow, but I didn’t know this back then, and I no longer own that computer.
- 10% texting (This happened in 2015. It is 2018. I’ve gone through 2 new phones, one of which was stolen fml)
- 10% other - google hangouts, Facebook, tumblr, etc.

”This happens to men/boys too.”

Yeah, and water is wet. Me talking about my experiences doesn’t negate others. The only story I can tell is my own. Why would I talk about someone else, or I guess pretend to be a boy and tell this story, if that’s what you want? I don’t know that experience or how it feels. I only know mine, and that’s why I shared it. The links I’ve provided are inclusive of all people and children, and some show breakdowns by gender. If you’re concerned about other people and their stories, PLEASE go find them and support them. Don’t sit in my comments section telling me to do that. They obviously need YOUR help if you want to give that. Claiming I’m “ignoring” others by just telling my story is ignorant and a waste of the kind heart you claim to have.

“Did he do anything worse?”

Unfortunately yes. Statutory r***. And I went to the police about it. We tried getting security camera footage but the place where it happened didn’t have cameras installed until a year after the incident took place. All we could try to pin him on was coercion to entice, but again, we couldn’t get him to confess. So, he got away with it.

”you’re lying / you’re doing this for attention / this is fake / that’s photoshopped / if this really happened you’d / etc”

Did you know 2% of American adults think the Earth is flat? With a population of 326,766,748, that’s 6.5 million dumbasses walking amongst us. With numbers like that, who am I to expect anyone watching this video to believe anything concrete?

After getting out of this relationship, I was diagnosed with major depression, anxiety, I’ve struggled with self harm since being with him and I am prone to relapsing, and I have had symptoms of PTSD (recurring vivid nightmares, flashbacks, irrational fears). Making this video put me in an awful place mentally for a month or so, which I anticipated and dealt with along the way. I do not have the emotional energy or even a care in the world to “debate” you in the comment section. But go off, more comments actually benefits my channel. (Thanks for your support! 😊😊😊😊)

Thank you guys so much and let me know if you’d like to see part two or something a little more light hearted.
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Jade fox is blue
I'm so sorry that happend
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Amber Shelton
You know... I already knew my ex boyfriend was bad. He did a lot of awful things to me. But I never thought about it like this. About any of my exes like this. I cried watching this but I'm glad I've seen it. I'm so sorry for what you've gone through and I hope you're happy where you are in life now 💚
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ulsejja ssl
Omg...Porr u ...I can t think about how u feelld this hole yearses .... I think you had been soo strestfully those all years ...
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тoхιιĸ
.. I have the same problem with a boy online... I try to stop it.. But I can't.... It hurts.... I need help....
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